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Monday, 15 June 2020

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It has been a while since, I have only been listening to the radio silence which materialized from the consequences of uncertain events lately.

What am I even talking about ?

Look around and see, are we all not wanting to experience something relishing, certain event to unfold and give us the joy that we once had, waiting for this series of bad omens to end.

Which also reminds me, no one in this world has the liberty of going back in time to those days. Although, we can stay fixated on the past, yet we cannot move beyond the dimension of time.

There has been people who gave in to such thoughts, and ultimately isolated themselves or even left this world. Hence, I would share some thoughts of my own, wherein I stand as an "Old School".

What is being an "Old School" ?

Google says that "to refer to someone or something that is old-fashioned or traditional", however in my opinion it has nothing to do with age/old-fashioned/traditional rather, it means to have a strong will to withstand every ounce of extra burden with an added laughter. Do you think I am wrong ?, then keep reading and prove me wrong otherwise.

Recently, I was speaking with a friend who was sharing the pain he had endured thru-out his life, till date. 

He told me a lot of things, out of which most were dejected and with the time I even got worried that, he may as well be suffering from acute depression and how do I even console him, anyone would think so if paid attention to his words and experiences. However, the inconceivable part was his laughter after every instance.

In the end, I simply told that him that "You are an old school", and he relatively thought of his age and told me, "I am not old enough to be called that", and I did not say anything but laughed, and he realized what I meant. He stated that he was somehow glad for I called him an old school.

Why do you need to know this ?

I mostly write when I perceive something which difficult to explain yet, important to be understood, to be honest even I have been feeling quite glum due to recent events and wish for circumstances to be more favorable.

Therefore, being an old school means to be strong and also to talk out your feeling, not to box them with a time bomb, and listen to others who needs it as well. It is a badge of honor that we stand for a cause, and never to be related with age.

We all have someone to talk with, family or friends, but somehow if you do not have anyone to share your feelings with, please let me know. Yes, I am a good listener however, if you would ask me for an advise or opinion I can be outspoken, I try and fail miserably to sugarcoat my words more often. 

Whenever someone would ask me, I will proudly say that "I am an old school", to tell them that I am there to help, if needed. What about you ?

On the contrary, if you cannot help someone, yet you want to prevent depression, anxiety and suicides. Then simply stop being an idiot on social media and in real life.

Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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