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Monday, 15 June 2020

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Old School : The Badge Of Honor

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It has been a while since, I have only been listening to the radio silence which materialized from the consequences of uncertain events lately.

 What am I even talking about ?

 Look around and see, are we all not wanting to experience something relishing, certain event to unfold and give us the joy that we once had, waiting for this series of bad omens to end.

 Which also reminds me, no one in this world has the liberty of going back in time to those days. Although, we can stay fixated on the past, yet we cannot move beyond the dimension of time.

 There has been people who gave in to such thoughts, and ultimately isolated themselves or even left this world. Hence, I would share some thoughts of my own, wherein I stand as an "Old School".

 What is being an "Old School" ?

 Google says that "to refer to someone or something that is old-fashioned or traditional", however in my opinion it has nothing to do with age/old-fashioned/traditional rather, it means to have a strong will to withstand every ounce of extra burden with an added laughter. Do you think I am wrong ?, then keep reading and prove me wrong otherwise.

 Recently, I was speaking with a friend who was sharing the pain he had endured thru-out his life, till date. 

 He told me a lot of things, out of which most were dejected and with the time I even got worried that, he may as well be suffering from acute depression and how do I even console him, anyone would think so if paid attention to his words and experiences. However, the inconceivable part was his laughter after every instance.

 In the end, I simply told that him that "You are an old school", and he relatively thought of his age and told me, "I am not old enough to be called that", and I did not say anything but laughed, and he realized what I meant. He stated that he was somehow glad for I called him an old school.

 Why do you need to know this ?

 I mostly write when I perceive something which difficult to explain yet, important to be understood, to be honest even I have been feeling quite glum due to recent events and wish for circumstances to be more favorable.

Therefore, being an old school means to be strong and also to talk out your feeling, not to box them with a time bomb, and listen to others who needs it as well. It is a badge of honor that we stand for a cause, and never to be related with age.

We all have someone to talk with, family or friends, but somehow if you do not have anyone to share your feelings with, please let me know. Yes, I am a good listener however, if you would ask me for an advise or opinion I can be outspoken, I try and fail miserably to sugarcoat my words more often. 

Whenever someone would ask me, I will proudly say that "I am an old school", to tell them that I am there to help, if needed. What about you ?

On the contrary, if you cannot help someone, yet you want to prevent depression, anxiety and suicides. Then simply stop being an idiot on social media and in real life.

Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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Monday, 20 April 2020

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Covid-19 : A Chapter In History

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It has been an absolute grim situation for the entire human race, since the pandemic known as Covid-19 or commonly known as Coronavirus has began. However, there's more to this than meets the eye. Hence, we would discuss a few aspects of Covid-19 to know it better.

 (Information source (Covid-19) : World Health Organization/Wikipedia as on 19/04/2020)

What is this virus ?

 Coronaviruses are a large family of viruses which may cause illness in animals or humans. In humans, several coronaviruses are known to cause respiratory infections ranging from the common cold to more severe diseases such as Middle East Respiratory Syndrome (MERS) and Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome (SARS). COVID-19 is the infectious disease caused by the most recently discovered coronavirus.

 This new virus and disease was unknown before the outbreak that began in Wuhan, China. Furthermore, this virus is thought to be natural and have an animal origin, through spillover infection, however the actual origin is still unknown. The majority of cases result in mild symptoms of cold and fever, some progress to viral pneumonia and multi-organ failure.

 When did it start ?

 At the close of December 2019, the WHO China Country Office was informed of a pneumonia of unknown cause, detected in the city of Wuhan in Hubei province, China. According to the authorities, some patients were operating dealers or vendors in the Huanan Seafood market. Therefore, WHO stayed in close contact with national authorities, and began monitoring the situation and requested further information on the laboratory tests and different diagnoses to be considered.

 Human-to-human transmission was confirmed by the WHO and Chinese authorities by 20 January 2020. Thereafter, acknowledging that cases have been reported in five WHO regions in one month, the Committee (WHO) noted that early detection, isolating and treating cases, contact tracing and social distancing measures – in line with the level of risk – can work to interrupt virus spread. Hence, it was declared a Public Health Emergency of International Concern on 30 January 2020.

To keep a track of genuinely updated cases reported to World Heath Organization, please click on WHO COVID-19 Dashboard. Also, ensure not to fall victim to the rumors, and always authenticate the information before reacting.

 I think we should not stretch this too much and consider few other facts as well.

Therefore, below cases/deaths are as per the information reported to WHO till 19/04/2020 02:00 AM Central European Summer Time.

 Total cases overtime in the world : 2246291
Total deaths in the world : 152707

Percentage of the people died from the infected : 06.79

 In other words, Covid-19 seems to have a fatal rate of 06.79 percent from the infected, which is quite relieving, however this is the result of an enforced global lock-down and even when it is being handled with utmost priority, whereas consider the situation once the lock-down is removed, and we are on our own.

 Now, simply imagine the ratio.!

 Precisely, if we do not fight it today and somehow the situation becomes uncontrollable in the aftermath, we would only be lost in the thought, of being able to end it in the past. Needless to say, we will have to bear the consequences of our own actions and pray, that the situation does not gets any worse. 

How will it end? 

 It will not, unless we realize that we need to stop it, moreover there is no vaccination to cure Covid-19 yet. Hence, we need to understand its mechanism first.!
This virus primarily spreads between people during close contact, often via small droplets produced by coughing, sneezing, or talking. While these droplets are produced when breathing out, they usually fall to the ground or onto surfaces rather than being infectious over long distances. People may also become infected by touching a contaminated surface and then touching their eyes, nose, or mouth. The virus can survive on surfaces for up to 72 hours (approx.).
Therefore, recommended measures to prevent infection include frequent hand washing, maintaining physical distance from others (especially from those with symptoms), covering coughs and sneezes with a tissue or inner elbow, and keeping unwashed hands away from the face. In other words, follow social distancing, sanitize hands regularly, wear a face mask when needed and maintain hygiene religiously. Also, if possible then help the people in need as well, since not everyone can afford the luxury of food and hygiene in this time of crisis.

 Now, why would we consider Covid-19 to be a chapter in history.?

 I would share my opinion wherein I am rather inclined to consider the positive aspects first. Ironically, it taught us to respect the environment, to help the ones in need, to stay home and spend time with family, unimaginable but rehabilitation as well for few of us and so on. Otherwise, tell me last time you had seen such an exquisite weather.

However, it also has diabolic aspects which must not be forgotten. The intensity of grief in the world due to loss of lives, this is something which cannot be compensated by any currency in the world. Furthermore, most of the countries are suffering from economical setbacks. Nonetheless, every individual is fighting a battle, which no other person knows of.!

 In the end, we are the only ones who can stop it. No one else would do it for us, it is our battle, we must fight and win this together. Also, I am certain that sometime in near future this would a chapter in history, which will either restore or destroy the faith in humanity for our future generations. Hence, I would request everyone to follow the steps, stay home and stay healthy..!

 Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 24 November 2019

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Anchors : Heavy, Yet Necessary !

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Everyone begins from somewhere, our existence was discovered on our birth. When we knew nothing about this world and the people in it, however we grow up with an impression that this world is everything but not deceptive.

 Everyone is taught to live for being better than everyone else and to always act with kindness, but then we get deceived by someone or may find or create a fortune or may think of ourselves as someone above all or even without any reason we just want to oppose our moral code which has been taught to us, and that changes the meaning of life.

 There are times when we are inclined to become someone that we are not, or rather someone sightless enough to ignore the consequences of our own actions.

 Today, let us discuss about those times, which creates this persona.

Being deceived by someone is very legit reason for changing ourselves, but the conclusion is, that we are only increasing the number by being one of them. No one else should go thru the similar emotions that we already had suffered.

May find a fortune, If someone has found a fortune then it would absolutely change everything for that person, but have we ever realized how all of those people end up destroying their life themselves.  Either its an inheritance or winning a lottery or by committing something unspeakable, all of them pay the price. Please read the history otherwise !

May create a fortune, If someone has created a fortune by own, apparently that person deserves to carry the attitude of being better then the most. Although, people I have seen with such caliber are mostly humble and kind, which is one of the reasons which got them to that point.

May think of ourselves as someone above all, why shouldn't we, if we have enlightened this mere world with our existence, even if it is meaningless then also should we not be proud of it ?. Rather, Pride is the precise word for such people who haven't done anything or can't even do anything themselves apart from whining.

Even without any reason we just want to oppose our moral code, When we are tired of being better all the times, yes I agree we get tired. However, this moral code also strengthens us to be the same as change is good but, not when its worth someone else's happiness.

It is all crap, everything I mentioned above are the most meaningless statements you have read today or you may have already pictured someone with some issues or questioned yourself already.

Have you ever yelled on someone close to you for a small reason, only to show your pride ? I am quite certain everyone has done this only to reflect our demeanor over the other person. However, was it worth doing ?

This is the part which saturates a person from being better to being the same. Otherwise, is there anyone who would appreciate being criticized in above mentioned categories ?

There is always an anchor which hold us to a place and it is timely lifted to move, but it is always carried with us and has to be used whenever needed.

For most of us, this anchor can be a place or a person or an activity or all of it. Think about it, who do we contact or where do we go or what do we do, when we need a sense of belonging or when we seek solitude or just to keep ourselves calm. If, you do not have any, then rethink since every being on this planet has one or multiple anchors to keep themselves connected to the ground.

Personally, even I have many such as my family and my balcony and my plants. They keep me connected to myself so I never forget the reasons why I have to be better than others.

A few may have lost their anchors and finding it difficult to regain the sense of belonging. However, the fact is "It is never lost, rather replaced". Otherwise, find one before you end up going directionless. It is as necessary as breathing !

I have not mentioned friends since they are more likely to be wings which I have discussed previously as "Lifeguard : Friendship !!".

Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 8 September 2019

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Are Traffic Rules Imposed?

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There have been a few amendments into The Motor Vehicle Act, which has been into force from 01st, September’2019 onward. Hence, let us have some discussion on how are they imposed on citizens.

The major amendments that have been done into The Motor Vehicle Act are:-

On not giving way to vehicles engaged in emergency services: A fine of Rs 10,000 or jail term of up to 6 months or both.

Non-wearing of helmet: License suspended for three months with fine of Rs 1,000.

On not wearing seat belt: Fine of Rs 1,000.

On driving without insurance: First mistake of Rs. 2,000 fine and /or up to 3 months in jail. Rs 4,000 fine and/or imprisoned for 3 months for the second time.

Driving without license: Fine of up to Rs 5,000.

Driving without PUC: Fine of Rs 10,000.

Talk on phone while driving: Fine of Rs 5,000.

Drunk driving: Prison for up to 6 months and/or a fine of Rs 10,000 for the first mistake. Jail up to 2
years and/or a fine of Rs 15,000 for the second time.
Overloading on two-wheeler: Rs 2,000 fine and/or license suspended for 3 months.

Accident related offenses: First time jail for 6 months and / or fine of Rs 5,000. Jail up to 1 year for the second time and / or a fine of up to Rs 10,000.

Dangerous driving: First time 6 months to 1 year in jail and/or fine up to Rs 1,000-5,000. Jail up to 2 years and/or fine of Rs 10,000 for the second time.

Over speed: For the first time, a fine of RS 1,000-2,000 on light vehicles  and Rs 2,000-4,000 on medium passenger or commercial vehicles. License forfeited for a second time.

Racing and Speeding: Jail up to 1 month and / or fine of Rs 5,000 for the first time. Second jail for up to 1 month and / or fine of up to Rs 10,000.

Previously, there was no law relating to accidents during minors' driving. Now the parent / vehicle owner of the child will be held guilty. Individual will face a fine of 25 thousand rupees and three years in jail. Also, vehicle registration will be canceled for one year. The minor will not be given a driving license before the age of 25.

General invoice: First Rs 100, now Rs 500.

This list does not ends here, there are a lot more. It is ironic but, I personally find it amusing for how people have been reacting towards this entire situation.

I would share an instance wherein I went for a dinner recently and opted to book a cab and not to drive because of the apprehension of violating a traffic rule. Moreover, even the chauffeur was skeptical of violating any traffic rule; he said “I’m afraid that if I may break a rule”, when I asked him to take a turn to avoid long route.

Apparently, I was surprised when I heard about a fine of Rs 22,000 on a two wheeler of worth Rs 15,000. Catalyst, could be the precise word to define, for how imposed this situation has been defined by media wherein they does not even share the specifics of any fine.

Even rallies are being conducted to have these changes removed, wherein I would only agree to one point among all their agendas that is, if a police officer has to be bribed, the bracket for negotiation is incomprehensible.

Hence, what are the ways to ensure, that we do not get into a situation wherein we have to pay a fine or we can skip it with a minimum payment?

First, the vigilance team should be extremely vigilant on not letting police officers take any bribe by any means and to be certain that fines are charged fairly, if possible there should be a way to dispute them immediately.

Second and most important, we must make sure to have all necessary documents and to follow all the rules.

To be honest, it would make the roads safer than ever before. Read the rules again and imagine how smoothly the traffic would run and how, substantially the road accidents would decrease if everyone would start following them and never to forget, this shall even improve the environment. We all have never cared about any rules, since they were always economically convenient to be bought either by bribe or a fine, than to be followed. However, now it would be rather cheaper to follow them for a change.

I am in favor of these changes; in fact I have started following the rules. It is even better, when I see a lot of people following them religiously now.

Do you still find them being imposed? If, yes then please leave your reason in the comments below. Otherwise, it is better to start following the rules. Choose Wisely and Live Freely…Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 17 March 2019

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Why To Pursue The Unendurable?

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Why To Pursue The Unendurable
We all have asked this question from ourselves and the most effortless answer is "because you can".

 Apparently, we all possess an emotion to achieve something, which could be a pursuit to gain an impeccable identity or to at least make a difference or even to be rich. However, this pursuit suffocates in the dilemma of "What, How and Why should I do it". Hence, we would discuss about them to attain what we pursue.

 What : Have you ever felt passionate towards something? It could be associated to anything, such as reading, writing, acting, singing, travelling and so on. If someone hasn't found their "what" then embrace it by recognizing what gives you peace during the time of chaos.

 Everyone has their own mechanism of dealing with chaos, if or when it is manifested by the circumstances. Mostly, this mechanism is our "What" we should do.  All we need to do is, to turn that chaos into solitude.

 Why or How : This is not easy, never was and never will be. We all have someone who inspires us, it can be an inventor or a philanthropist or someone unrecognized by most of us. Hence, we would discuss about few of them.

 Steve Jobs : He was one of the founders of Apple Inc. However, if we have read about him then we know the life he been thru for a better end. A report from FBI indicated that he even used Marijuana and LSD during his college days and this was "one of the two or three most important things" he had done in his life.

 Warren Edward Buffett : I am sure most of us knows about him. However, he is a philanthropist who pledged to give away 99 percent of his fortune for better causes whereas he is considered as as one of the most successful investors in the world. This person was inspired by a book when he was seven years old.

 Harvey Ross Ball : We all use Smiley figure, and this was the guy who invented it. How many of us knew this ? moreover, he was a retired Brigadier General and served in World War II. Also, he created this smiley figure to to increase morale.

 There is only one emotion common among all of them. They found solitude in their chaos and were persistent to pursue what they wanted.

 I personally perceive their notion as "they knew that if they won't do it, someone else would". It is less about how we started but more about how we end it.

 My preposition is, that we would always question the reasons for why we should do it, but the extensive question is why should we not pursue it. Choose Wisely and Live Freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 3 March 2019

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War : The Religion of Peace

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I have heard a hypothesis that the World War III is about to begin and eventually it would bring prosperity to our world. Moreover, I have seen people being considerate to have war to attain peace.
War : The Religion of Peace

Somehow, I despise the conviction that there could ever be peace with this belief. Have we not learned anything from the history?

Please find facts from a few wars till now :

World War I : The total number of military and civilian casualties in World War I were about 40 million: estimates range from 15 to 19 million deaths and about 23 million wounded military personnel.

World War II : An estimated total 70-85 million people perished, which was about 3% of the 1940 world population. Civilians deaths totaled 50 to 55 million. Military deaths from all causes totaled 21 to 25 million. 

Please look at the numbers closely, more or nearly half of them are civilians. Which is also known as collateral damage of a war, this should be sufficient enough to jog anyone's memories for the so called peace attained from a war. Hence, someone who is not a military personnel, I would request them to keep their expert advises limited to reality shows and sports. Otherwise, please join the military and then go for a war.

I do not have any intent to criticize the patriotism of any individual, I am rather inclined to give a bold reaction to anyone who does or even say anything against my country. However, I do not prefer insisting anyone that there must be a war.

Please ask from someone's family who has lost their loved ones in a war, if they would ever prefer to have a war again. There are instances when a family grieved in the loss and appealed for a war to never happen again, but even they were criticized to have such a thought.

We must protest for our opinion to be heard, but the opinion must be considerate towards a better tomorrow, not for a war. We must always be ready for a war, however we must never propose for a war to start.

Terror is a thought and we all must work together to end this thought, wherein a war would have collateral damage which could create even more people who would retaliate and may as well become a part of a terror group. Hence, the thought of terror would remain intact which would give birth to more terrorist organizations.

Even Hilter would have never thought that he was wrong. It is the history which decides, for who was wrong or right.

Nonetheless, every country has a president or ministers or diplomats or bureaucrats who has wisdom beyond my comprehension. Hence, my only preposition is to be considerate towards eliminating this thought.

A War, indeed can be a religion of peace but only if, we can influence people to not to have a war and to work towards eliminating the thought of terror. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Saturday, 9 February 2019

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People Can Even Breath Money !!!

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This is True ! If you do not believe me? Then ask someone who has survived being on ventilator. I am sure you are thinking it over again now, hence let us discuss about how important the money is.

People Can Even Breath Money !!!

What about eating money or hearing money, rather consider it in all of our senses i.e. Sight, Hear, Taste, Smell, Touch. Do we really need money for all of our senses?

Sight : Ask someone who have or had a cataract or any sight disorder , otherwise is everyone certain that they are immune to any sight disorder.  There is a price for regular checkups as well. Moreover, we cannot travel to see new places without money.

Hear : Ask someone who have or had hearing disability or any disorder, otherwise I am certain we all have to get our ears cleansed to keep this sense intact which doesn’t happen for free, even if we are doing it at home, we would still require the tools or would you do it with anything?

Taste : We all eat something which has to be bought, moreover even farmers spend money to grow them and for those who are carnivorous, they may also have to buy it or even if it was hunted, then also it had to be cooked using spices which doesn’t come for free. If all of it comes for free to someone then that person may be living in stone age.

Smell : Is there anything which smells good but comes for free or is there someone who likes smelling odor?, otherwise even to smell better our nostrils should be open and we all have to take medicines when suffering from cold and finding impossible to breath properly, forget about even smelling anything good or bad.

Touch : Has it ever happened that someone is financially broke or stressed over some anticipated financial loss and in that dilemma that person touches a hot mug of coffee or tea or even kettle for that matter or what about an instance when we had it whereas our sense of touch should have warned us beforehand. If not this then there would have been something else, when our sense of touch had deceived us over a financial matter, irrespective of how rich or poor a person is.

Ironically, any acquaintance if aware of the wealth that an individual possesses, their all senses changes spontaneously towards that individual, doesn't they ?

I am not emphasizing that money is the most important aspect of live but, it is one of the most important aspect of life. If it controls the 05 senses then either it must be their leader or should be addressed as the 06th Sense. Otherwise, we must take control over our own senses and be the 06th sense or the leader which we are born to be. Always remember "everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer".Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 16 December 2018

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Life : A Book Of Ironic Adventures

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Life, which is nonetheless a book of adventures and it is not because of its iconic perfection but for its ironic perfections. WHO,WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, WHY and HOW ?, we all realize it in our daily lives to be precise but we deceive ourselves in accepting it and today, let's explore that specific irony of life which make our lives a book of adventures. Also, one of my friend suggested me to write about this aspect of life.



WHO:

Who does it revolves around, let's make a guess, what about our family or a friend or a neighbor or a foe or an acquaintance. Honestly, it is only about us, who else would our life be about? We see everything, we notice everyone however we barely realize the reality of the way we have constructed our lives.

WHAT:

What am I talking about, we all wake up in morning, afternoon or even at night and what do we do afterwords, we would either go to our workplace or maybe we would be luckily on our off but there is one aspect common among all, that is the monotony.

WHERE:

Now, we are talking about the location. It could be our home, office or maybe outside but aren't we following the same pattern. If we are going to workplace, we would work then go home and sleep. About a day if we are on off, we would prefer to stay home to take rest and sometimes, we would go out since we had enough of work during the working days. This is the location for most of us, isn't it ?

WHEN:

Not a lot to say about it but, It is every moment of our lives which we assume to be under our own obedience whereas it is obedient to the moment we all are obliged with.

WHY:

This is easy, the only reason we are bounded by this is because, most of us are addicted to this life of monotonous events. We do not accept the changes since most of us are not ready to adopt the unpredictable situation that we encounter.

HOW:

How could we do this ? even i fail to comprehend this, hence I would need your suggestion to complete this blog.

How could we be like this?

Let's take an idle working day for an example : We wake up, get ready then have our meal or maybe we would skip it for some reason, afterwards we somehow manage to reach our workplace but we may have already had an argument with someone for no valid reason or maybe not, then we would work and in the meanwhile we might as well take rest or have meal in idle time but by end of the day we would lay down to only recall it as another same day before falling asleep.

Please tell me how could we do this to our lives where we bound ourselves to this monotony of life instead of cherishing the irony of life. We all must adopt to the changes or if there aren't any changes then how could we change our lives from a monotonous to a life of adventures since "We weren't born to just pay bills and die or are we.? " . Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 25 November 2018

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Everybody Should Get Rich and Famous !

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"I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer"-Jim Carry. Is this statement really justified ?
Everybody Should Get Rich and Famous !

Let's have some discussion about it and find out, for how justified this statement really is !, it was said by Jim Carry, who happens to be Rich & Famous but what about us, most of us are neither rich nor famous. How can someone who posses neither of them could possibly understand this. I personally would love to experience that being rich and famous is not the answer, apparently everyone wants to be rich and famous, but what is holding us back from being rich and famous, or following our dreams?

Too Busy - Bullshit, call yourself lazy if you really want to hear the truth or maybe you never really wanted it like the way you should've been and that is the reason you cannot be persistent.

Impossible - Now, we are being too practical or maybe we do not have what it takes to even dream or rather follow those dreams as it could have multiple consequences which would not be held in our favor but we need to look at the possibility of what could be there at the end of the line instead of being concerned about the situations ahead of us.

Afraid -Failing is something we cannot control but we can minimize the risk, however never giving up is a choice which we can make and include it in our lifestyle at a part of us which would help us with all the ventures in life.

Too Competitive - Seriously, this is something which is there for everyone not just made exclusively for a specific person. Still, there are people who achieve something everyday and if this reason is holding us back then we really need some inspiration.

Don't Know - In this case, lets go for everything we can do and eventually we would know of that something which could make us rich and famous or be the dream we never realized.

Easier Said Than Done -True, but was there anything which could be done easily and as an example it took years for every individual to even learn to speak or read or write or walk, everything that is done in the beginning has to be perfected with time, no one is born perfect !

Tell me if there is anything else that I missed on but now comes the question once again, what if being rich and famous or getting everything that we dreamed of, is not the answer?, then what what is the answer for it ?

If I get it right, then it is the satisfaction from what we posses, we should always pursue our dreams or become rich and famous but the satisfaction is the guardian of the eternal peace, we should not keep running, we must take a halt and appreciate what we have before start running again, what I am emphasizing on is that we should never give up but we should learn to celebrate every achievement and move forward with the same zeal even though we may get stuck at the same place for a while but if we don't get stuck then we would never learn to appreciate. "Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have because we are too focused on what we want". Choose wisely and live freely....cheers !!!

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Sunday, 15 July 2018

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It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

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Recently a friend said this during a conversation which had me wonder, perhaps it is one of the most unrecognized fact about life, it requires a lot of guts or I would prefer calling it the will power to reboot and start over our lives.
It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

What takes it away, everyone is equipped with enough will power to incinerate every obstacle along the journey of life however, what incinerate the will power itself. I could only think of two situations which are, either we are still in the past or we are only living in future.

When or if we are in the past and wondering for why something has happened in our lives, it takes a toll on our will and gradually starts suffocating us to be precise. Apparently, it is very well said that "Where there's a will, there's a way", I am not saying that the way we have to walk on would be easy or tough however, there is always an option and that is to keep our will power intact to face the music and make the past fall flat on its face !!!

Being always in future is also something which could incinerate our will power as we are not at the place where we are needed, but we are only living at the place which is inevitable and eventually everything would unfold before us with the time, however we still wish for things to turn out differently and honestly "If wishes were horses, the beggars would ride", it is in best of our interest to go as a guest in the future, not live there as a resident !!!

We all live our lives which is inevitable and one the most lethal weapon we are equipped with is our will power which can and will get us thru our darkest hours however, if it is only loaded with our strength, what I am trying to convey is that if we have enough will power than we can stay strong in the moment we are needed, neither the moment which has passed nor the moment which is yet to come, the will power is needed to only stay in the moment we are in right now and stay strong, giving up is never an option. "People do not lack strength, they lack will". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers !!!

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Monday, 26 March 2018

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The Sword and The Swordsmanship : The Knowledge and The Wisdom

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A tool, that is what a sword is perhaps it is the art of swordsmanship which gives the ability to fiercely pierce thru the fearsome opponents, relatively knowledge is also a tool however without wisdom it is as good as it never existed.
The Knowledge and The Wisdom

The Sword : Knowledge

Knowledge is about the information that we can obtain either by books or investigations, that can and will help us in our future to attain right answers for when and if they are needed, we all must focus on gathering as much knowledge as possible, we can always learn from ourselves or the people around us. We just need an open mind to see and learn every prospect of life for it is a tool that we all must acquire to live our lives in harmony.

The Swordsmanship : Wisdom

Wisdom is the art where we understand the motions that, our words or action could put in place and what consequences it may force upon us, or our loved ones. Apparently, without wisdom more or less we may become someone who would possibly have answer for all questions but, gradually we might end up creating a problem comprising of all smaller problems. Wisdom is perused by all but only attained by those who are willing to understand the potential of their own knowledge.


We all have the tool of knowledge and now sharpen the edges by having the best knowledge possibly available and we only know it by knowing that learning never ends, we can and will encounter new situation everyday, just pay attention to it and gather as much knowledge as possible. Now, know how to attain wisdom which is not an easy task but we can always start by understanding when an answer has to be given, what is the most appropriate time, maybe it is now or tomorrow or could also be never, think faster and smarter, not eventually but gradually we would be able to conquer over the best of the best out there in this world. "Without Wisdom, Knowledge is Either Useless or Destructive". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers !!!

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Friday, 23 March 2018

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Shortest path to our desires...

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Impeccable life, this is the desire we all dream of and many of us achieve it as well but the means of obtaining it, matters the most. During the medieval era, even the noble knights were promised that they would be forgiven for their sins, which they utilized remarkably. Today, we somehow uses the same analogy to take the shortest path to achieve our desires.
Shortest path to our desires...

Intentional.


Are we sure, that we are willing to commit something that would maybe change our entire lives for good but would cause something horrific to the other being, we all are humans, we are born to struggle our way out of life and only hard work is what can get us to, what we desire. Doing wrong with someone for our own desire is like, taking the food out of someone else's mouth but to only overfeed ourselves.

Unintentional.


We did not mean that to happen with other person, this the most trickiest one. Most of us uses such phrases when we realize that our actions has caused horrors in someone else's life however, we always know it in our consciousness, about repercussion our action would possibly cause but we choose to ignore it. This thin line separates us from being selfless, and being selfish.


The only being we deceive is our self, we have to repent for the path we choose as we always have a toll for a shorter and faster path, even though we end up waiting for our turn at the booth. What I am emphasizing on is, that there is only one short path to our desires, for we are only worthy of it if we are willing to keep ourselves patient and work hard enough till the end. "Whenever you realize you have made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it". Stay patient, work hard and live freely....Cheers !!!

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Thursday, 22 March 2018

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Two Brothers : January and December....

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A bitter truth or a sweet lie, which one would we all prefer. Most of us would choose the bitter truth even though the sweet lie is what most of us embrace, let's talk a little about January & December today. The only thing common among them is, they both are cold !!!
Two Brothers : January and December....

January.

An Angel, It emphasizes on all the exquisite aspects of life and give us the motivation to peruse all the desires, most of them are created to be fulfilled and award us with a glorious life ahead. We feel unconquerable as we have all the resources at our disposal so that we do not have to bow down to any obstacle that comes along the journey and obtain what is rightfully our own. This happens to be the most adorable aspect of January however, is it really true ???

December.

A Demon, It bluntly says it on our face for all the desires we once thought we could obtain, apparently they were rightfully our own but were we able to conquer them or they were just lost along the journey, we are not supposed to bow down to any obstacle or to feel that way at all, however this one can and will say everything on our face for the journey we have completed. This is the most hateful aspect of December however, is this the truth ???

This is what happens every year in our lives, we start making new promises and resolutions in January however most of the things turns out to be different by December. I would tell you a secret, they both are brothers and when we make promises or resolutions by January, January conveys all of them to December, apparently they make a bet and December makes that journey as hard as possible with the different levels which are also known as February, March and so on.

The bitter truth is, It's we who gives the opportunity to December to say it all on our face and the sweet lie is, The way we make excuses for not being able to fulfill the desires. Now, why do we get so lost along the journey and forget the motivation January equips us with, we must never take a halt for what we truly seek as is it, rightfully our own. Never give up and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Tuesday, 20 March 2018

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A Few doses of Optimism to stay healthy !!!

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A hope, for our life could embark us on a journey thru a dark and cold forest which has the capabilities to confine us within it's darkness, that is when optimism becomes the lantern or even the chainsaw that we need to get out of the misery !!!
Optimism

We have been living in the world where we face challenges everyday, it could be personal or professional but that is a part of everyone's life. Optimism is not something which we can buy or can be gifted, it is something which comes from within ourselves as a privilege. To be optimistic simply means, to never loose hope that everything would be better in the end.

Being optimistic is good but even better when it becomes our trait, optimism is barely needed under the circumstances that are in our favor, rather it is required when nothing can be controlled and we have to swiftly move forward with the flow of time.

We need to realize that the only thing constant in our lives is "Change" for it is permanent and it could be creating good or maybe bad circumstances but the time shall pass and the light of hope would always reflect upon us, without optimism we would possibly imprison ourselves in our own thoughts without any chances of survival.

We must always keep that spark enlightened should we ever need it, what I am emphasizing on is that we are optimistic only till the time we are comfortable in a situation but the fact is, we need to be optimistic during the desperate times, just tell yourself that "the future can be better than the present, and I have the power to make it so", be optimistic and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Saturday, 17 March 2018

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Career : The Future Unfolds !!!

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Career, something everyone focuses on to attain a living standard which is envied by others or to even contribute in the development of our society. Many of us work on it since our childhood and achieve the goals within stipulated time, however not everyone see the same fate, some of us realize that we must focus on our career post the statute of limitation, which is quite humorous, let's think how could we overcome these emotions.
Career : The Future Unfolds !!!

It is Late

Indeed, however being late is merely an excuse created by our brains to avoid the struggle of being utilized, we must pursue it whenever we realize that we could have achieved far beyond from what we have, if we could have done it differently. Perhaps, we should not get into this dilemma after our (Just kidding) retirement but is it still not late. If not for anyone else than let us just prove it to yourselves !!!!

It is not Easy

Now, no one ever said that life is going to be an easy quest, if we have this thought than we are already a survivor of most of what life could offer, no one can question our strength other than ourselves, we make everything easy as well as hard, it is only "mind over matter". Just go for it !!!!

No Time

Seriously, that is the best we could come up with after all this, when we have already condemned half or maybe more than half of our lives, if we have time to eat, sleep, work and repeat then we also have time for studies. Let us take a stand for what we desire and pursue it with our blood, sweat and efforts and achieve it. We deserve it !!!!

"When we wake up, we have 02 choices, go back to sleep and dream or wake up and chase those dreams". Choose wisely, live freely...Cheers !!!!

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