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Life is inevitable, however our tenacity to deal with the circumstances defines our destiny. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Saturday 28 April 2018

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Earth : Dominated by Men or Women ! (Chapter 01)

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Is it as true as it sound or is it just a myth, we all are enthusiastic while having such discussions with our family, friends or even with a stranger and it does not really takes a long time before it could turn into an argument to be precise.

Earth : Dominated by Men or Women !

We all are humans first of all which makes both of us vulnerable to all emotions in life and how we deal with them matters the most.

Once, I heard that men do well with money but don't do well with emotions, apparently it was something I could not skip, but to think over it multiple times and I could realize that we men may really do well with money but when it comes to emotions, I am sorry to all the men but we just cannot handle it well, for example we sometimes accept false allegations, lies and many more, only so that we can go on with a peaceful life, we men only like to think about one thing at a time. What else does a man possibly demands, apart from a peaceful life !

I have always heard that women are equal or maybe even further more superior then men, however while discussing the role and responsibilities why does it sounds that only men is the one who has to do everything, many women does share all the responsibilities but how many of them really exist or are they
extinct already. We should split all the bills or pull a chair for each other at a restaurant or maybe open the door for each other once in a while, it looks even funnier when we imagine it in our head, can women really do it or is it just an impossible thought after all everything that even a women wants is peace !

We both have one emotion in common that is peace however, who works harder or even smarter for it ??

To complete this blog I would request you to share your thought in the comments, share this blog and let us conclude for who makes this world a better place to live !!!. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!
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Sunday 22 April 2018

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Wife : The Queen Of All Trades !

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A mystery or a mystical being, may as well be an understatement for wives.

Wife : The Queen Of All Trades !

However, Queen of all trades may sound quite appropriate as they definitely are and always will be,the history dictates same.

They can be loving, caring, fascinating, despicable or anything we want them to be or nothing like we need them to be. This is what had me inclined to make an attempt to write about them.

We men always try to understand them, manage them, control them and this is where we are wrong as they are the celestial beings among us all, just think about the pain and suffering they have to go thru and that is only to see us in relief. They have so many roles in their life a daughter, a sister, a mother, a granny along with the foremost important role of being a wife and they can never retire unlike men, we too have our share of responsibilities but we are born with a tenacity of letting go of the things easily however on the other hand women can live without everything or anyone but they cannot survive anything without their husband, they loses their pieces without us. I have personally seen this in my mother and sisters.

They are the Queens of all trades as they can sustain with any man and overcome the challenges and make their man a king, a Queen takes care of the obstacles while a men only has few responsibility and that it to provide them with a roof, food on table and apparels, on the other hand women has to make that roof a home, make cuisines of the food and look as a mystery with the apparels.

What I am emphasizing on is that we should respect them and provide them with what is necessary and they would always do what is best for us, they respect and trust us with their lives. Always remember "A Man Is A King, Only When He Has A Queen". Respect truly and live freely....Cheers !!!

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Saturday 14 April 2018

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Divorce : The Die Verse

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Poetry, it is a word which could be used to define life as resemblance in both is remarkably recognizable, as similar to poetry life also has multiple verses which may or at times may not rhyme well but ultimately keeps defining our lives. Today I am inclined to discuss a verse of our lives which may or may not be written in everyone's fate but we all have reached to that thought for at least once in our lives, that is the divorce or die verse as I would emphasize on calling it.
Divorce : The Die Verse

Divorce or Die Verse is a decision mostly taken out of sheer anger or to gain control over the other person or in some cases it can be because of someone else, I have been talking to lot of people over the same matter and I could realize that many of them were angry or wanted to gain control over the other person and this is not specific to a gender, it can be either of them, they wanted to make a threat and somehow that threat did not serve its purpose and started the clash of the egos for "who owns whom", gradually things keep getting worse as the time goes by and eventually making it impossible to reconcile  !!!

 We live in the era where time goes faster then life and we try to control life instead of managing time. We even lie to accelerate the process but "A Liar's biggest enemy is someone with a good memory" which we forget and it keeps getting worse by every lie and it becomes more difficult to look back and see ourselves as the same person !!!

 We did all this only to gain control over the other person, however now nothing matters anymore, we can keep doing this but in this verse a part of us dies, hence it becomes the Die Verse or if you still want to call it divorce, it is only after this, when we realize that life is a lot more about solving matters amicably than trying to control the other person, I would personally suggest everyone to avoid jumping to conclusions such as Divorce or Die Verse and it is never too late to solve any matter amicably !!!

 Some times we are too far to go back wherein we have already tried to solve things amicably and now the only way out is the way thru, then we must be ready to have Die Verse or Divorce written in the poetry of our lives and remember "In Order To Rise From Its Own Ashes, A Phoenix Must Burn First" as this would not be an easy path and we would need more patience than we could even imagine. Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers !!!

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Thursday 5 April 2018

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Affection : The Twisted Candy.

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Exquisite, would be the most appropriate word for its delicacy. We all have it or had it or maybe want to have it, we all have been thriving for the moment we can live it, I found it more addictive then anything I have encountered in my life till now. It can happen with anyone and anytime, it does not seek our permission or authorization, it just happens. Just like the way we can never recount the number of drinks we had last night, after a hangover.....
Affection : The Twisted Candy.

We really got to have some guts to be affectionate, it is not a cup of tea or a brunch but a commitment to ourselves for loyalty, dedication and all the things which we can, as well as cannot think of in our little brains and big heart, indeed we need a big heart for it. It is the toughest fight between our heart and brains that we would ever have to battle, this is what makes it "The Twisted Candy".

Few of us who had it and are already over it, have we ever traveled back in time and wondered if we were drugged the entire time for the amount of affection we had for the other person, I know it feels so awkward now, but it still gives us the same smile, which happens to be the best part about those memories and if in case we get angry while remembering then we are still not over it, hence get over it and never let it become The Weight on our Chest !!!

Few of us are going thru the trance of affection and wishes for it to never end, which is possible only if we are ready for the constant battle between our brains and heart wherein we would have to only rely on our heart for only our heart can endeavor affection, brains would scrutinize affection and could leave us in the abyss of sorrow. So, we must have or develop, the tenacity of affection in our heart only, not in brains.

Few of us who want to have it, may have been able to comprehend what we are wishing for by reading the previously mentioned details. This candy can be sweet, bitter or even sour and point is to survive it all "Affection is greater than perfection". Affectionate truly and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Tuesday 3 April 2018

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Haridwar : Diversion from Chaos to Solitude.

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Haridwar, a beautiful place where divine Ganges bless us with mountains as its crown, and a lot of people present to receive and honor the blessings. We all have our own vantage point to presume the existence of what we cannot comprehend.

Haridwar : Diversion from Chaos to Solitude.


I recently had a visit to Haridwar and it was quite chaotic.

Haridwar : Diversion from Chaos to Solitude.

This is what compelled my thoughts to wonder if this is really the place for solitude, I could not resist but to go further and know it for myself, firstly I had to find a place to submerge a few times in the Ganges which was difficult given the number of people gathered with the similar motive however I found it after struggling for a few minutes.

It is said that Ganges can wash away the sins, I honestly respect everyone's belief however my personal opinion is, nothing can wash away our sins, even if they were unintentional, we have to always atone for our sins otherwise why would a person seek redemption, everyone would simply submerge in the Ganges and would be forgiven from all the sins. Also, if this could be possible that we would be forgiven then it would have been sold for millions.

Now, when I took a chance myself, I would not possibly know how to express my gratitude to god for the life that we all have been blessed with, maybe it was because of heavy water current which got me a little scared to realize the importance of my life or maybe because water was too cold but something worked this thought in my head and ultimately, gave me a moment of solitude.

This is how or why I found Haridwar as a diversion from chaos to solitude and I liked this place, hence I might visit this place more often now.

We all should have our moments of solitude, as this life is shorter than we think. Keep travelling and live freely...

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