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Showing posts with label Men Vs Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Men Vs Women. Show all posts

Sunday, 10 March 2019

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Why/How are storms named
Thank you everyone, for your active participation in concluding my previous blog "Why Storm Names Are Female ?"

I would start by sharing thoughts of a few men and a few women as well.

Men : They started with first gesture as they deserve to be named after such incidents, rather they should even be named on more catastrophic events that takes place in the world/universe.

Women : They were quite calm while stating that this is a myth, they are named after females so that men would understand the true vigor of a women, and reconsider before retaliating against us.

Truthfully, I sometimes relish writing about such concepts which includes opinion from others i.e Men Vs Women being the most astonishing concept. The reaction I get is similar to a world war (Just Kidding).

Needless to say, the responses were amusing and as I stated in my previous blog I shall now elaborate for Why/How are storms named ?

Why : Initially, before 1950 the concept of naming the storm was not into existence, and the storms were designated as per the latitude-longitude. This was easier for the meteorologist to understand, however it was something closest to rocket science for a person like us to understand i.e 27.6648° N, 81.5158° W is the latitude-longitude of Florida, now how many of us can really memorize this. Hence, they started naming them so the communication related to any storm could be shared effectively.

How : Now, when they agreed to name them. First they started naming them after alphabets e.g. Able, Baker, Charlie and so on, however they later realized around 1953 that this would create confusion due to repeated names every year. Hence, they started naming them with different names and by 1979 they already had the concept wherein they have list for upcoming storms as well, which includes names of both, male and female. Although, it started with only female names and it took a lot of efforts to have this list established.

World Meteorological Organization manages the list of names for the storms and there are 06 lists which are used in rotation, with the names to omitted upon devastated damage they may have caused.

My proposition is to never discriminate someone for being similar to something as catastrophic as a storm. Always remember "It is only humans who must stand together, if we must survive any cataclysmic event". Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 24 February 2019

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They come during peaceful times and takes away everything associated to peace and leaves an individual with nothing, other than themselves, does it sounds familiar ?
Why Storm Names Are Female

If you do not believe me then let me tell you a few "retired hurricane names" i.e. Agnes, Alicia, Allison, Anita, Audrey and so on. Even the character of Storm X Men is a women. Please do not blame me now.

I was just kidding, it is not the truth but I have heard a lot of people giving me the above mentioned reasons for "Why Storm names are female". Hence, I was inclined to enlighten their thoughts for for the real reason reason why storm happen or why storm occurs or even what causes lightning. It is very simple, its due to unstable air and moisture, this is science and it is not something to joke about, specifically relating it to a gender. I would tell you an instance when a friend asked me "Do you know, who is the storm married to", and the answer was "A Man".

I understand a lot of us even mock it for pretending to be smarter, but if someone thinks like this, then they must they must rethink if Earth is Dominated by Men or Women ?

For those who still have this thought intact, that the storm names are female and they must be like this for the same reasons and it should remain the same, then please share the reasons and let everyone's opinion be shared and this matter be concluded for, if this is right or wrong since a few retired hurricane names are i.e. Andrew and Allen as well.

We must never discriminate someone for being similar to something as disastrous as a storm. I understand there are a few women who are really a living piece of monstrosity in this human creation but even a few men are no different or are we ?

Please leave it in the comments for why and who could it possibly be, men or women ? and I shall conclude this blog after the opinion from everyone, moreover I would tell you guys the real reason for why and how storm are named. Let us conclude, who is the real storm on this earth. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Thank you everyone, for your active participation in concluding this blog with "Why/How are storms named : Conclusion".

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Sunday, 1 July 2018

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Thank you all for your active participation, let us find the conclusion for The Parasite within us : Ego.


The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion

It is not something we get in legacy but something we earn over a period of time, however it is not confined with an age limit or even gender to be honest. We earn it with the experiences which put our principles to judgement which cannot always be right for anyone or everyone, apparently judging how constructive we are to implement a better thought and let go of the bad one.

The part which I wish to emphasize on is that we get confused between self respect and ego to be precise, none of them is harmful for anyone till the time we do not let it feed on our happiness.

When we get into an argument with someone, it can be a family member or a friend or even a stranger, we always want to win it by any means possible and the most wicked part is that we do not even think once, about the consequences it could create in our own lives. It could be catastrophic or maybe minor but our ego or self respect would cloud our judgement of understanding the potential threat it could incur in our lives.

Let us think of a situation we all have been in : In our childhood our parents always criticized on a lot of actions, warning us of the threats our actions could posses for others and most importantly ourselves and sometimes we understood that and sometimes we learned it by going thru the consequences but we were always open to learning something new for a better life, however the beauty of life comes, when we grow old and we think of ourselves as a celestial being with an unwillingness of ever learning something new, whereas life teaches us a new lesson everyday.

There is always a solution to every problem in this world, but only if we are looking for one. The only solution I find to this problem related to ego or self respect is "Listening and Understanding" or "Therapeutic Listening" since sympathy cannot really be beneficial for us but understanding the situation from someone's point of view could improve our own judgement and ultimately giving a solution that could be of "No" or near to "No" harm in anyone's life.

Having Ego or Self respect is good, only if we are willing to gain an experience from both of the sides, being better then others by listening to them and getting a solution which is considerably best for all, this could make us "earn" self respect or ego as we call it. "When you stop learning, you start dying". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers!!!


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Monday, 4 June 2018

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Hey guys !!!!, I hope you all are doing well...I appreciate your enthusiasm in sharing your thoughts, hence I decided to have another blog which requires your opinion.
The Parasite within us : Ego (Chapter 01)

A parasite, nothing less or nothing more......we feed this parasite for we all are prone to it but what does it feed upon, our soul or our peace or everything that we are made of ?, I personally feel it feeds on future, it makes it shorter,darker, painful than it could ever be.....can we ever overcome this dilemma that we control it not the other way around?

We all have ego...sometimes we call it good and we call it bad or maybe when we have it then, it is good but if someone else has it...it is bad..?

Let me break in into gender, who has it on the brighter or on the darker side...Men or Women ?

Men : They are always known for having this "Male Ego", why does it exist, I guess it is not male ego, it is just ego and women call it male ago to exaggerate their statement and make men feel anxious about it and give it up, otherwise how would they describe a man who is self-made and share his thoughts by the experiences he has encountered or maybe he is faking it all, nonetheless does it exist..the male ego ?

Women : On the other hand women may have the experience and even the expertise but it is always under the question of validation...which makes them angry and lead a discussion to an argument ?, maybe they knows better for what is necessary to get a bright future, we really cannot figure it out when we sit back and have a few thoughts or discussions about it, however are they really an expert ?

Who destroys or makes it all better or darker men or women...given an opportunity whom would you say is on the one or both sides....Leave it in the comments or inbox on my Facebook page....let's have a discussion or even an argument for this matter but we must conclude it at the earliest, we all must know who feeds this parasite or who is prone to this parasite, remember "Ego Trip : A Journey to Nowhere" . Choose wisely and live freely.....Cheers!!!

Thank you for your support and concluding this blog with The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion.


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Monday, 7 May 2018

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Finally, we have concluded for who makes this world better or who makes it worse. This is the conclusion for Earth : Dominated by Men or Women !, first of all I would like to thank all the people who helped me to conclude it, I received messages from many people. Hence, thank you all for making it possible for me to write the conclusion.

Earth : Dominated by Men or Women : Conclusion

Now, there were few people who kept saying that men causes the world to show its worst face to us by oppressing women with their power upon them, sometimes it is mentally and even physically at times but the men does that and the oppressed someday rise and bad things happen which was ultimately caused because of what men did, for which men should be held guilty and only women makes this world a better place !!!

Then, Few were quite inclined with their thought that women uses their sympathy and have the men proved guilty even before the trial which causes for the men to start doing the same things for which they were falsely implicated and women should be the one to be held guilty, and only men makes this world a better place !!!

A few even emphasized that it the God who is taking the earth to this phase of terror, and the God should be held guilty !!!

Seriously, I really appreciate your response and taking out time for it but, why are we only playing blame games ??

Every individual is responsible for his or her own actions and God gave free will to even the Angels, now who do we blame ??, we all are to be held responsible for every right and every wrong thing that happens in this world.

This cannot be gender specific, we all has worked together in making this world a peaceful place and it is only us who must keep working together without blaming each other, we all have our responsibilities, there are women who pay all the bills and there are men who takes care of household but it only becomes tough when we start counting our responsibilities or start naming them !!!

The Conclusion is, The earth is dominated by humans !!!

Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!


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Saturday, 28 April 2018

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Is it as true as it sound or is it just a myth, we all are enthusiastic while having such discussions with our family, friends or even with a stranger and it does not really takes a long time before it could turn into an argument to be precise.

Earth : Dominated by Men or Women !

We all are humans first of all which makes both of us vulnerable to all emotions in life and how we deal with them matters the most.

Once, I heard that men do well with money but don't do well with emotions, apparently it was something I could not skip, but to think over it multiple times and I could realize that we men may really do well with money but when it comes to emotions, I am sorry to all the men but we just cannot handle it well, for example we sometimes accept false allegations, lies and many more, only so that we can go on with a peaceful life, we men only like to think about one thing at a time. What else does a man possibly demands, apart from a peaceful life !

I have always heard that women are equal or maybe even further more superior then men, however while discussing the role and responsibilities why does it sounds that only men is the one who has to do everything, many women does share all the responsibilities but how many of them really exist or are they
extinct already. We should split all the bills or pull a chair for each other at a restaurant or maybe open the door for each other once in a while, it looks even funnier when we imagine it in our head, can women really do it or is it just an impossible thought after all everything that even a women wants is peace !

We both have one emotion in common that is peace however, who works harder or even smarter for it ??

To complete this blog I would request you to share your thought in the comments, share this blog and let us conclude for who makes this world a better place to live !!!. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!


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Sunday, 22 April 2018

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A mystery or a mystical being, may as well be an understatement for wives.

Wife : The Queen Of All Trades !

However, Queen of all trades may sound quite appropriate as they definitely are and always will be,the history dictates same.

They can be loving, caring, fascinating, despicable or anything we want them to be or nothing like we need them to be. This is what had me inclined to make an attempt to write about them.

We men always try to understand them, manage them, control them and this is where we are wrong as they are the celestial beings among us all, just think about the pain and suffering they have to go thru and that is only to see us in relief. They have so many roles in their life a daughter, a sister, a mother, a granny along with the foremost important role of being a wife and they can never retire unlike men, we too have our share of responsibilities but we are born with a tenacity of letting go of the things easily however on the other hand women can live without everything or anyone but they cannot survive anything without their husband, they loses their pieces without us. I have personally seen this in my mother and sisters.

They are the Queens of all trades as they can sustain with any man and overcome the challenges and make their man a king, a Queen takes care of the obstacles while a men only has few responsibility and that it to provide them with a roof, food on table and apparels, on the other hand women has to make that roof a home, make cuisines of the food and look as a mystery with the apparels.

What I am emphasizing on is that we should respect them and provide them with what is necessary and they would always do what is best for us, they respect and trust us with their lives. Always remember "A Man Is A King, Only When He Has A Queen". Respect truly and live freely....Cheers !!!

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