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Monday 26 November 2018

Peace : Priceless, Yet Most Expensive !!!

Avinash Saxena Emotions in Life , 0 Comments

Peace, priceless when attained but most expensive when trying to attain. Apparently, something we all seek but we do not comprehend the price we must pay to attain this sense of calmness in our thoughts. Hence, let's negotiate the price we could pay for it.

Peace : Priceless, Yet Most Expensive !!!

We must begin with trying to find the reason for not being at peace first, and it is not only associated to one relation rather it goes beyond than what we could even aspire, we could be easily annoyed by anything or even everything, for an instance what if we are asked to put the garbage in a dustbin whereas we always does that but still we were asked and that could annoy us, few of us may not really care for this instance, but the point is, anything could make us feel angry.

Anger is born from despair, we have lost hope, we may as well have an impression that everything is always against us in our lives. The better question is why and the simple answer is, because we let it annoy us or make us feel angry, however what is the price for it. Now, this is getting confusing.

I am quite certain that few of us have started getting angry over this blog but, if I may ask, please forgive me and keep reading and we may have paid the price for peace by end of this blog. Thank you !

This is the price for peace, forgiveness. We barely comprehend that we need to forgive, not because we are told that its morally correct or someone asked to be forgiven, but because we need to keep moving forward and that is what life is all about. Now, it doesn't mean that every time someone says something stupid, we need to show them our palm and say "i forgive you", that would probably get someone in a mental asylum or a hospital if the person is lucky enough, however do not ever let the words said by others to get into our heads for it may manifest thoughts that we do not want, which would cause overthinking and ultimately, loss of peace for now, and we only live in present, not in future.

What I am emphasizing on, is to forgive without being asked by someone and move forward without saying a word and gradually we will make peace with ourselves, and this is the price for peace which, not everyone can afford. "There is no greater wealth than the peace of mind". Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday 25 November 2018

Everybody Should Get Rich and Famous !

Avinash Saxena Growth in Life , 3 Comments

"I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer"-Jim Carry. Is this statement really justified ?

Let's have some discussion about it and find out, for how justified this statement really is !, it was said by Jim Carry, who happens to be Rich & Famous but what about us, most of us are neither rich nor famous. How can someone who posses neither of them could possibly understand this. I personally would love to experience that being rich and famous is not the answer, apparently everyone wants to be rich and famous, but what is holding us back from being rich and famous, or following our dreams?

Too Busy - Bullshit, call yourself lazy if you really want to hear the truth or maybe you never really wanted it like the way you should've been and that is the reason you cannot be persistent.

Impossible - Now, we are being too practical or maybe we do not have what it takes to even dream or rather follow those dreams as it could have multiple consequences which would not be held in our favor but we need to look at the possibility of what could be there at the end of the line instead of being concerned about the situations ahead of us.

Afraid -Failing is something we cannot control but we can minimize the risk, however never giving up is a choice which we can make and include it in our lifestyle at a part of us which would help us with all the ventures in life.

Too Competitive - Seriously, this is something which is there for everyone not just made exclusively for a specific person. Still, there are people who achieve something everyday and if this reason is holding us back then we really need some inspiration.

Don't Know - In this case, lets go for everything we can do and eventually we would know of that something which could make us rich and famous or be the dream we never realized.

Easier Said Than Done -True, but was there anything which could be done easily and as an example it took years for every individual to even learn to speak or read or write or walk, everything that is done in the beginning has to be perfected with time, no one is born perfect !

Tell me if there is anything else that I missed on but now comes the question once again, what if being rich and famous or getting everything that we dreamed of, is not the answer?, then what what is the answer for it ?

If I get it right, then it is the satisfaction from what we posses, we should always pursue our dreams or become rich and famous but the satisfaction is the guardian of the eternal peace, we should not keep running, we must take a halt and appreciate what we have before start running again, what I am emphasizing on is that we should never give up but we should learn to celebrate every achievement and move forward with the same zeal even though we may get stuck at the same place for a while but if we don't get stuck then we would never learn to appreciate. "Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have because we are too focused on what we want". Choose wisely and live freely....cheers !!!