Life by avi

Sunday 19 May 2019

Why am I alive ?

Avinash Saxena Emotions in Life , Relations in Life 4 Comments

Why am I alive ?

This was the first question I asked myself, since I did not know what I could possibly do and the only fact I knew was, that I had nothing to live for.

I still wonder, what all treachery would life unfold before it bids farewell to its mere existence.

Today, I would like to tell you something about myself. My age is 29 , perhaps soon to be 30 since my birthday is on 27th May. Thank you for wishes in advance!

My first blog was on 14th, March'2018, when I was going thru one of the most unanticipated phase of my life. I am still going thru divorce wherein everything initiated on 07th, January'2018.

Apparently, it made me realize a lot of untold facts about life which I could never comprehend, when everything started I tried everything within my ability to retain the relation which was inevitable to to end.

I still ask the same question mentioned above (Why am I alive ?) to myself multiple times since that day and to be honest, I still haven't found the answer yet.

I still pursue the reason to prove my existence with something better, apart from breathing to prove it!

Now, why am I telling you this ?

Because, I have made quite a lot of mistakes in my life but needless to say some were beautiful, however I would really want someone to learn from it, as people still doesn't realize the consequences of their decisions. I have seen people consumed enough with their own emotions that they do not see the life, for the way it really is !!!

We all do everything that is right according to us and we decide it by our self, which gets questioned later by everyone. This is what makes everyone loose their ideal temperament, doesn't it?

I am sure we does that considering it to be better for everyone but, in real it is better to make the choices collectively since we alone does not have to carry every burden that life offers !!!

I only want to emphasize on the thought of not bearing the burden of everything by ourselves and it is never late to begin...!!!!!!!!

We must have someone to share it with and that could be family at the best or a friend and even a stranger, everyone counts. Otherwise, the burden of the consequences would never reduce irrespective of the efforts.

Moreover, by end of the day either we would be drowned by our own sorrows or we can overcome, simply by the being able to make the decisions collectively since we would have someone to support us thru the phase.

How do I know it ?

I have people who support me, few aggressively, few silently and needless to say few affectionately ...what about you ?

This becomes the foremost important reason to pursue the reason to keep the quest alive to find the reason of my existence !!!!

Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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Sunday 12 May 2019

The Picture Perfect Family

Avinash Saxena Emotions in Life , 2 Comments

There is a picture perfect family, wherein every member supports each other. Moreover, the opinion of every individual in that family is valued. It is the family everyone envies; hence we would talk about this family today.

I would tell you an instance that happened today, I went on an errand and an old woman of approx. 70 years of age was trying to approach me and I could perceive that she was being hesitant; therefore I stood there for a while and waited for her to initiate the conversation. It took a few minutes but, she approached me and asked for 05 bucks and my question was “why”. She felt embarrassed and said that she is not well and already has 05 bucks but need 05 more to take a ride back home, since she is not able to walk. I gave her the money, rather I called a ride and made sure she gets it. Moreover, even the driver charged less considering the situation, without saying a word. (Charged 10 instead of 20).

When she left, I wondered what kind of family she could be from, however everyone has a situation of their own. I am no one to judge someone and/or their family. What if, this woman may not even have a family?

I am sure this is a situation a lot of us has come across, but how many of us has left all the other thoughts and tried being their family or maybe treat them as a family member till we can, apparently we all have a family to take care of, hence we cannot adopt anyone, but we can at least try for a while and maybe someone else would carry on from there, such as the driver I mentioned above.

Honestly, after she left and most importantly after I left the thought of being a jury, It felt better that I could help her in any possible manner.

Now, what does this instance has to do with The Picture Perfect Family?

Precisely, there is no picture perfect family and we do not even get to choose our own family.

Instead of insisting everyone in our family to be perfect, should we not try to relish their imperfections or even share our own imperfections? I am sure someone else is better than you in few aspects but I am certain that you would also be better in few aspects than someone else.

Family is about getting all the pieces of a puzzle together.

There is no picture perfect family, we have to make one. We do not get to choose our family, but the one which we have is the only family.

We must cherish our own family and when we help someone, never be the jury for them or their family, we must do it considering them as our own; otherwise we must not do it at all. Ironically, we become jury if given the opportunity whereas, Every family is picture perfect. Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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