Life is inevitable, however our tenacity to deal with the circumstances defines our destiny. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Saturday 19 January 2019

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Who doesn't ? but what if I told you that life is not different from a "Box of Chocolates" and not everyone is fond of the chocolates that it offers, would you still love chocolates ? maybe not anymore. Hence, let's have a small discussion on, if we are to hypothetically consider our lives as a "Box of Chocolates".
Life indeed is a box of chocolates, but assorted. As the flavors of chocolate expands, proportionally the emotions in life as well, for we may even have more emotion in life when compared to the flavors of chocolate in a box. Surprisingly, we would never know which flavor we might end up savoring; it could be the sweetest, the most bitter, or even the perfect blend. We all love chocolates for their impeccably proportioned blend of sweetness and bitterness, but what about the ones, which are either too sweet or too bitter? Would we accept or deny a chocolate for its imperfection? Maybe, few of us would deceivingly appreciate any flavor and few of us would even love the profound twist of any chocolate but ironically, most of us would despise the unpredictable tenacity of a chocolate. 

Hence, we must learn to assent every flavor the box of chocolates has to offer. In other words, every chocolate has its own story and crafted to the perfection in its own uniqueness. The box of chocolates does not have any limitation for the flavors, for we must always appreciate its uniqueness, as we only have one box and one life. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers!!!

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Sunday 13 January 2019

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Fight without raising a sword, sounds improbable doesn't it ? but what if I told you that it is the most lethal art of a war irrespective of the vigor an opponent could posses. Let's discuss for how such an emotion would even survive in this era.
Pacifism : Hope In The Face Of Hopelessness !

No aggression is not pacifism, we absurdly misapprehend pacifism for someone who does not retain any aggression whereas, it is when someone knows how to respond thru the aggression of others. We all make our own choices which defines our persona. Hence, before considering pacifism, let's try not to be a pacifist !!!

It is easy, all we have to do now is to respond reflectively, in other words do whatever other person does. Hypothetically, if other person is being an arse, we must try to be a bigger one and eventually this mighty world would be full of arses (Just Kidding). It can also be absolutely antonym of this entire situation but how?

Aggression is not a choice, but indeed it is a component in the composition of our blood. Hence, the preposition is not to suppress the aggression but to channel it thru the senses which could guide us to comprehend the possible aftermath, knowing the conclusion only few of us would counter aggression with aggression. If we can follow this, then it would be absolutely antonym of what I mentioned previously.

What makes it lethal then? If we can comprehend the aftermath then we can also anticipate the next move and by not following the verdict anticipated by the other person, we are sure to win over them or would cause them also to rethink before their next move but, mostly without aggression !

When you eliminate the impossible whatever remains, however improbable must be the truth.

Pacifism, it is about being unpredictable with a calm persona and never loosing hope, which could leave the other person in dilemma of their own chimera. Moreover, retaliation is the first action anticipated by a human. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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