Life is inevitable, however our tenacity to deal with the circumstances defines our destiny. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Saturday, 9 February 2019

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This is True ! If you do not believe me? Then ask someone who has survived being on ventilator. I am sure you are thinking it over again now, hence let us discuss about how important the money is.

People Can Even Breath Money !!!

What about eating money or hearing money, rather consider it in all of our senses i.e. Sight, Hear, Taste, Smell, Touch. Do we really need money for all of our senses?

Sight : Ask someone who have or had a cataract or any sight disorder , otherwise is everyone certain that they are immune to any sight disorder.  There is a price for regular checkups as well. Moreover, we cannot travel to see new places without money.

Hear : Ask someone who have or had hearing disability or any disorder, otherwise I am certain we all have to get our ears cleansed to keep this sense intact which doesn’t happen for free, even if we are doing it at home, we would still require the tools or would you do it with anything?

Taste : We all eat something which has to be bought, moreover even farmers spend money to grow them and for those who are carnivorous, they may also have to buy it or even if it was hunted, then also it had to be cooked using spices which doesn’t come for free. If all of it comes for free to someone then that person may be living in stone age.

Smell : Is there anything which smells good but comes for free or is there someone who likes smelling odor?, otherwise even to smell better our nostrils should be open and we all have to take medicines when suffering from cold and finding impossible to breath properly, forget about even smelling anything good or bad.

Touch : Has it ever happened that someone is financially broke or stressed over some anticipated financial loss and in that dilemma that person touches a hot mug of coffee or tea or even kettle for that matter or what about an instance when we had it whereas our sense of touch should have warned us beforehand. If not this then there would have been something else, when our sense of touch had deceived us over a financial matter, irrespective of how rich or poor a person is.

Ironically, any acquaintance if aware of the wealth that an individual possesses, their all senses changes spontaneously towards that individual, doesn't they ?

I am not emphasizing that money is the most important aspect of live but, it is one of the most important aspect of life. If it controls the 05 senses then either it must be their leader or should be addressed as the 06th Sense. Otherwise, we must take control over our own senses and be the 06th sense or the leader which we are born to be. Always remember "everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer".Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Saturday, 19 January 2019

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Who doesn't ? but what if I told you that life is not different from a "Box of Chocolates" and not everyone is fond of the chocolates that it offers, would you still love chocolates ? maybe not anymore. Hence, let's have a small discussion on, if we are to hypothetically consider our lives as a "Box of Chocolates".
Life indeed is a box of chocolates, but assorted. As the flavors of chocolate expands, proportionally the emotions in life as well, for we may even have more emotion in life when compared to the flavors of chocolate in a box. Surprisingly, we would never know which flavor we might end up savoring; it could be the sweetest, the most bitter, or even the perfect blend. We all love chocolates for their impeccably proportioned blend of sweetness and bitterness, but what about the ones, which are either too sweet or too bitter? Would we accept or deny a chocolate for its imperfection? Maybe, few of us would deceivingly appreciate any flavor and few of us would even love the profound twist of any chocolate but ironically, most of us would despise the unpredictable tenacity of a chocolate. 

Hence, we must learn to assent every flavor the box of chocolates has to offer. In other words, every chocolate has its own story and crafted to the perfection in its own uniqueness. The box of chocolates does not have any limitation for the flavors, for we must always appreciate its uniqueness, as we only have one box and one life. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers!!!

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Sunday, 13 January 2019

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Fight without raising a sword, sounds improbable doesn't it ? but what if I told you that it is the most lethal art of a war irrespective of the vigor an opponent could posses. Let's discuss for how such an emotion would even survive in this era.
Pacifism : Hope In The Face Of Hopelessness !

No aggression is not pacifism, we absurdly misapprehend pacifism for someone who does not retain any aggression whereas, it is when someone knows how to respond thru the aggression of others. We all make our own choices which defines our persona. Hence, before considering pacifism, let's try not to be a pacifist !!!

It is easy, all we have to do now is to respond reflectively, in other words do whatever other person does. Hypothetically, if other person is being an arse, we must try to be a bigger one and eventually this mighty world would be full of arses (Just Kidding). It can also be absolutely antonym of this entire situation but how?

Aggression is not a choice, but indeed it is a component in the composition of our blood. Hence, the preposition is not to suppress the aggression but to channel it thru the senses which could guide us to comprehend the possible aftermath, knowing the conclusion only few of us would counter aggression with aggression. If we can follow this, then it would be absolutely antonym of what I mentioned previously.

What makes it lethal then? If we can comprehend the aftermath then we can also anticipate the next move and by not following the verdict anticipated by the other person, we are sure to win over them or would cause them also to rethink before their next move but, mostly without aggression !

When you eliminate the impossible whatever remains, however improbable must be the truth.

Pacifism, it is about being unpredictable with a calm persona and never loosing hope, which could leave the other person in dilemma of their own chimera. Moreover, retaliation is the first action anticipated by a human. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 16 December 2018

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Life, which is nonetheless a book of adventures and it is not because of its iconic perfection but for its ironic perfections. WHO,WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, WHY and HOW ?, we all realize it in our daily lives to be precise but we deceive ourselves in accepting it and today, let's explore that specific irony of life which make our lives a book of adventures. Also, one of my friend suggested me to write about this aspect of life.





WHO:

Who does it revolves around, let's make a guess, what about our family or a friend or a neighbor or a foe or an acquaintance. Honestly, it is only about us, who else would our life be about? We see everything, we notice everyone however we barely realize the reality of the way we have constructed our lives.


WHAT:

What am I talking about, we all wake up in morning, afternoon or even at night and what do we do afterwords, we would either go to our workplace or maybe we would be luckily on our off but there is one aspect common among all, that is the monotony.

WHERE:

Now, we are talking about the location. It could be our home, office or maybe outside but aren't we following the same pattern. If we are going to workplace, we would work then go home and sleep. About a day if we are on off, we would prefer to stay home to take rest and sometimes, we would go out since we had enough of work during the working days. This is the location for most of us, isn't it ?

WHEN:

Not a lot to say about it but, It is every moment of our lives which we assume to be under our own obedience whereas it is obedient to the moment we all are obliged with.

WHY:

This is easy, the only reason we are bounded by this is because, most of us are addicted to this life of monotonous events. We do not accept the changes since most of us are not ready to adopt the unpredictable situation that we encounter.

HOW:

How could we do this ? even i fail to comprehend this, hence I would need your suggestion to complete this blog.

How could we be like this?

Let's take an idle working day for an example : We wake up, get ready then have our meal or maybe we would skip it for some reason, afterwards we somehow manage to reach our workplace but we may have already had an argument with someone for no valid reason or maybe not, then we would work and in the meanwhile we might as well take rest or have meal in idle time but by end of the day we would lay down to only recall it as another same day before falling asleep.

Please tell me how could we do this to our lives where we bound ourselves to this monotony of life instead of cherishing the irony of life. We all must adopt to the changes or if there aren't any changes then how could we change our lives from a monotonous to a life of adventures since "We weren't born to just pay bills and die or are we.? " . Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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