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Life is inevitable, however our tenacity to deal with the circumstances defines our destiny. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Sunday, 16 December 2018

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Life : A Book Of Ironic Adventures

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Life, which is nonetheless a book of adventures and it is not because of its iconic perfection but for its ironic perfections. WHO,WHAT, WHERE, WHEN, WHY and HOW ?, we all realize it in our daily lives to be precise but we deceive ourselves in accepting it and today, let's explore that specific irony of life which make our lives a book of adventures. Also, one of my friend suggested me to write about this aspect of life.



WHO:

Who does it revolves around, let's make a guess, what about our family or a friend or a neighbor or a foe or an acquaintance. Honestly, it is only about us, who else would our life be about? We see everything, we notice everyone however we barely realize the reality of the way we have constructed our lives.

WHAT:

What am I talking about, we all wake up in morning, afternoon or even at night and what do we do afterwords, we would either go to our workplace or maybe we would be luckily on our off but there is one aspect common among all, that is the monotony.

WHERE:

Now, we are talking about the location. It could be our home, office or maybe outside but aren't we following the same pattern. If we are going to workplace, we would work then go home and sleep. About a day if we are on off, we would prefer to stay home to take rest and sometimes, we would go out since we had enough of work during the working days. This is the location for most of us, isn't it ?

WHEN:

Not a lot to say about it but, It is every moment of our lives which we assume to be under our own obedience whereas it is obedient to the moment we all are obliged with.

WHY:

This is easy, the only reason we are bounded by this is because, most of us are addicted to this life of monotonous events. We do not accept the changes since most of us are not ready to adopt the unpredictable situation that we encounter.

HOW:

How could we do this ? even i fail to comprehend this, hence I would need your suggestion to complete this blog.

How could we be like this?

Let's take an idle working day for an example : We wake up, get ready then have our meal or maybe we would skip it for some reason, afterwards we somehow manage to reach our workplace but we may have already had an argument with someone for no valid reason or maybe not, then we would work and in the meanwhile we might as well take rest or have meal in idle time but by end of the day we would lay down to only recall it as another same day before falling asleep.

Please tell me how could we do this to our lives where we bound ourselves to this monotony of life instead of cherishing the irony of life. We all must adopt to the changes or if there aren't any changes then how could we change our lives from a monotonous to a life of adventures since "We weren't born to just pay bills and die or are we.? " . Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Monday, 26 November 2018

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Peace : Priceless, Yet Most Expensive !!!

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Peace, priceless when attained but most expensive when trying to attain. Apparently, something we all seek but we do not comprehend the price we must pay to attain this sense of calmness in our thoughts. Hence, let's negotiate the price we could pay for it.

Peace : Priceless, Yet Most Expensive !!!

We must begin with trying to find the reason for not being at peace first, and it is not only associated to one relation rather it goes beyond than what we could even aspire, we could be easily annoyed by anything or even everything, for an instance what if we are asked to put the garbage in a dustbin whereas we always does that but still we were asked and that could annoy us, few of us may not really care for this instance, but the point is, anything could make us feel angry.

Anger is born from despair, we have lost hope, we may as well have an impression that everything is always against us in our lives. The better question is why and the simple answer is, because we let it annoy us or make us feel angry, however what is the price for it. Now, this is getting confusing.

I am quite certain that few of us have started getting angry over this blog but, if I may ask, please forgive me and keep reading and we may have paid the price for peace by end of this blog. Thank you !

This is the price for peace, forgiveness. We barely comprehend that we need to forgive, not because we are told that its morally correct or someone asked to be forgiven, but because we need to keep moving forward and that is what life is all about. Now, it doesn't mean that every time someone says something stupid, we need to show them our palm and say "i forgive you", that would probably get someone in a mental asylum or a hospital if the person is lucky enough, however do not ever let the words said by others to get into our heads for it may manifest thoughts that we do not want, which would cause overthinking and ultimately, loss of peace for now, and we only live in present, not in future.

What I am emphasizing on, is to forgive without being asked by someone and move forward without saying a word and gradually we will make peace with ourselves, and this is the price for peace which, not everyone can afford. "There is no greater wealth than the peace of mind". Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 25 November 2018

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Everybody Should Get Rich and Famous !

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"I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it's not the answer"-Jim Carry. Is this statement really justified ?
Everybody Should Get Rich and Famous !

Let's have some discussion about it and find out, for how justified this statement really is !, it was said by Jim Carry, who happens to be Rich & Famous but what about us, most of us are neither rich nor famous. How can someone who posses neither of them could possibly understand this. I personally would love to experience that being rich and famous is not the answer, apparently everyone wants to be rich and famous, but what is holding us back from being rich and famous, or following our dreams?

Too Busy - Bullshit, call yourself lazy if you really want to hear the truth or maybe you never really wanted it like the way you should've been and that is the reason you cannot be persistent.

Impossible - Now, we are being too practical or maybe we do not have what it takes to even dream or rather follow those dreams as it could have multiple consequences which would not be held in our favor but we need to look at the possibility of what could be there at the end of the line instead of being concerned about the situations ahead of us.

Afraid -Failing is something we cannot control but we can minimize the risk, however never giving up is a choice which we can make and include it in our lifestyle at a part of us which would help us with all the ventures in life.

Too Competitive - Seriously, this is something which is there for everyone not just made exclusively for a specific person. Still, there are people who achieve something everyday and if this reason is holding us back then we really need some inspiration.

Don't Know - In this case, lets go for everything we can do and eventually we would know of that something which could make us rich and famous or be the dream we never realized.

Easier Said Than Done -True, but was there anything which could be done easily and as an example it took years for every individual to even learn to speak or read or write or walk, everything that is done in the beginning has to be perfected with time, no one is born perfect !

Tell me if there is anything else that I missed on but now comes the question once again, what if being rich and famous or getting everything that we dreamed of, is not the answer?, then what what is the answer for it ?

If I get it right, then it is the satisfaction from what we posses, we should always pursue our dreams or become rich and famous but the satisfaction is the guardian of the eternal peace, we should not keep running, we must take a halt and appreciate what we have before start running again, what I am emphasizing on is that we should never give up but we should learn to celebrate every achievement and move forward with the same zeal even though we may get stuck at the same place for a while but if we don't get stuck then we would never learn to appreciate. "Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have because we are too focused on what we want". Choose wisely and live freely....cheers !!!

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Sunday, 15 July 2018

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It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

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Recently a friend said this during a conversation which had me wonder, perhaps it is one of the most unrecognized fact about life, it requires a lot of guts or I would prefer calling it the will power to reboot and start over our lives.
It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

What takes it away, everyone is equipped with enough will power to incinerate every obstacle along the journey of life however, what incinerate the will power itself. I could only think of two situations which are, either we are still in the past or we are only living in future.

When or if we are in the past and wondering for why something has happened in our lives, it takes a toll on our will and gradually starts suffocating us to be precise. Apparently, it is very well said that "Where there's a will, there's a way", I am not saying that the way we have to walk on would be easy or tough however, there is always an option and that is to keep our will power intact to face the music and make the past fall flat on its face !!!

Being always in future is also something which could incinerate our will power as we are not at the place where we are needed, but we are only living at the place which is inevitable and eventually everything would unfold before us with the time, however we still wish for things to turn out differently and honestly "If wishes were horses, the beggars would ride", it is in best of our interest to go as a guest in the future, not live there as a resident !!!

We all live our lives which is inevitable and one the most lethal weapon we are equipped with is our will power which can and will get us thru our darkest hours however, if it is only loaded with our strength, what I am trying to convey is that if we have enough will power than we can stay strong in the moment we are needed, neither the moment which has passed nor the moment which is yet to come, the will power is needed to only stay in the moment we are in right now and stay strong, giving up is never an option. "People do not lack strength, they lack will". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers !!!

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