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Life is inevitable, however our tenacity to deal with the circumstances defines our destiny. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Sunday, 15 July 2018

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It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

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Recently a friend said this during a conversation which had me wonder, perhaps it is one of the most unrecognized fact about life, it requires a lot of guts or I would prefer calling it the will power to reboot and start over our lives.
It takes a lot of guts to reboot..!

What takes it away, everyone is equipped with enough will power to incinerate every obstacle along the journey of life however, what incinerate the will power itself. I could only think of two situations which are, either we are still in the past or we are only living in future.

When or if we are in the past and wondering for why something has happened in our lives, it takes a toll on our will and gradually starts suffocating us to be precise. Apparently, it is very well said that "Where there's a will, there's a way", I am not saying that the way we have to walk on would be easy or tough however, there is always an option and that is to keep our will power intact to face the music and make the past fall flat on its face !!!

Being always in future is also something which could incinerate our will power as we are not at the place where we are needed, but we are only living at the place which is inevitable and eventually everything would unfold before us with the time, however we still wish for things to turn out differently and honestly "If wishes were horses, the beggars would ride", it is in best of our interest to go as a guest in the future, not live there as a resident !!!

We all live our lives which is inevitable and one the most lethal weapon we are equipped with is our will power which can and will get us thru our darkest hours however, if it is only loaded with our strength, what I am trying to convey is that if we have enough will power than we can stay strong in the moment we are needed, neither the moment which has passed nor the moment which is yet to come, the will power is needed to only stay in the moment we are in right now and stay strong, giving up is never an option. "People do not lack strength, they lack will". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 1 July 2018

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The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion

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Thank you all for your active participation, let us find the conclusion for The Parasite within us : Ego.
The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion

It is not something we get in legacy but something we earn over a period of time, however it is not confined with an age limit or even gender to be honest. We earn it with the experiences which put our principles to judgement which cannot always be right for anyone or everyone, apparently judging how constructive we are to implement a better thought and let go of the bad one.

 The part which I wish to emphasize on is that we get confused between self respect and ego to be precise, none of them is harmful for anyone till the time we do not let it feed on our happiness.

 When we get into an argument with someone, it can be a family member or a friend or even a stranger, we always want to win it by any means possible and the most wicked part is that we do not even think once, about the consequences it could create in our own lives. It could be catastrophic or maybe minor but our ego or self respect would cloud our judgement of understanding the potential threat it could incur in our lives.

 Let us think of a situation we all have been in : In our childhood our parents always criticized on a lot of actions, warning us of the threats our actions could posses for others and most importantly ourselves and sometimes we understood that and sometimes we learned it by going thru the consequences but we were always open to learning something new for a better life, however the beauty of life comes, when we grow old and we think of ourselves as a celestial being with an unwillingness of ever learning something new, whereas life teaches us a new lesson everyday.

 There is always a solution to every problem in this world, but only if we are looking for one. The only solution I find to this problem related to ego or self respect is "Listening and Understanding" or "Therapeutic Listening" since sympathy cannot really be beneficial for us but understanding the situation from someone's point of view could improve our own judgement and ultimately giving a solution that could be of "No" or near to "No" harm in anyone's life.

 Having Ego or Self respect is good, only if we are willing to gain an experience from both of the sides, being better then others by listening to them and getting a solution which is considerably best for all, this could make us "earn" self respect or ego as we call it. "When you stop learning, you start dying". Choose wisely and live freely....Cheers!!!

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Monday, 4 June 2018

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The Parasite within us : Ego (Chapter 01)

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Hey guys !!!!, I hope you all are doing well...I appreciate your enthusiasm in sharing your thoughts, hence I decided to have another blog which requires your opinion.
The Parasite within us : Ego (Chapter 01)

A parasite, nothing less or nothing more......we feed this parasite for we all are prone to it but what does it feed upon, our soul or our peace or everything that we are made of ?, I personally feel it feeds on future, it makes it shorter,darker, painful than it could ever be.....can we ever overcome this dilemma that we control it not the other way around?

We all have ego...sometimes we call it good and we call it bad or maybe when we have it then, it is good but if someone else has it...it is bad..?

Let me break in into gender, who has it on the brighter or on the darker side...Men or Women ?

Men : They are always known for having this "Male Ego", why does it exist, I guess it is not male ego, it is just ego and women call it male ago to exaggerate their statement and make men feel anxious about it and give it up, otherwise how would they describe a man who is self-made and share his thoughts by the experiences he has encountered or maybe he is faking it all, nonetheless does it exist..the male ego ?

Women : On the other hand women may have the experience and even the expertise but it is always under the question of validation...which makes them angry and lead a discussion to an argument ?, maybe they knows better for what is necessary to get a bright future, we really cannot figure it out when we sit back and have a few thoughts or discussions about it, however are they really an expert ?

Who destroys or makes it all better or darker men or women...given an opportunity whom would you say is on the one or both sides....Leave it in the comments or inbox on my Facebook page....let's have a discussion or even an argument for this matter but we must conclude it at the earliest, we all must know who feeds this parasite or who is prone to this parasite, remember "Ego Trip : A Journey to Nowhere" . Choose wisely and live freely.....Cheers!!!

 Thank you for your support and concluding this blog with The Parasite within us : Ego : Conclusion.

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Sunday, 20 May 2018

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We have to be wrong, to know the difference between wrong and right !!!

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There is always a time in life when we realize that what we did or what happened was wrong and an infinite time loop begins, so that we can keep bashing ourselves for it, and forget one simple thumb-rule about life that, we have to be wrong to distinguish between wrong and right  !!!
We have to be wrong, to know the difference between wrong and right !!!

What is being wrong !!!

Honestly, it is when we have to convince ourselves that what we are going to do is right at the first place and it can also be done by even telling ourselves that we did it to make things right and so on...or maybe sometimes when it has already happened, then it was out of a reaction to an action. Now, the fact is that, it has already happened and drowning ourselves in that situation would never give a different outcome to it, so if we are wrong let's accept the fact that we were wrong, and it would do most of the work !!!

What is being right !!!

When, we encounter a situation where we think or rather put ourselves in the other person's situation to understand the emotions that the other person may be going thru and responding as per the experiences we had in the past, when we were also there dealing with the same emotions or we may not always understand the emotions that the other person may have been going thru, then we must stay calm and ask !!!, the most simple question in this life, that is to ask "What Happened".


If, we have to go thru a situation now, we should understand that how we need to react, either we would have learned of the outcome the hard way by experiencing it or we could have understood by asking it. Nonetheless, we need to know or give a thought to the outcome of a situation before reacting to it, a vantage point to be precise. Always remember "If a person was never wrong, then it is impossible to be always right". Choose wisely and live freely.....Cheers!!!

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