Life by avi

Life is inevitable, however our tenacity to deal with the circumstances defines our destiny. Choose wisely and live freely...Cheers !!!

Sunday, 30 June 2019

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The Extraterrestrial Life Of An Employee : Chapter 01 : The Boss Almighty

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Thank You all, for your enthusiastic response on my blogs. Truthfully, it is nothing less then the fuel to my inspiration for never to cease writing. Hence, this is something new I have experimented and hopefully you would like reading it. If you must, please leave a comment below and only then I shall write the Chapter 2.


 Disclaimer : Everything mentioned below is entirely a work of fiction and I do not want to search for a new job, unless I get paid better.

Chapter 01 : The Boss Almighty

My name is Avinash and I am a bonded labour, precisely I work in huge corporate park with an air conditioned environment and I wear torn clothes sometimes for which I paid to have them rigged, when I bought them. Somehow, I am at the bottom (Executive Level) of the corporate chain which means that my energy and brains are consumed by everyone else in this pathetic chain.

 The day I saw a movie named "The Wolf Of Wall Street", I wondered if such a boss really exist or not ?, however I am given somewhat close to that environment when I need a leave or leaves or need to leave early or need to reach late and extremely opposite if I am not happy with my raise in salary. Otherwise, I can also unintentionally become the most incompetent, disgraceful and a human without any ethics whatsoever.

 The most ironic part is when they share their success stories which no one wants to hear, and somehow we have gather courage to appreciate their struggle, when we really don't give a shit about it.

Which reminds me of an instance of a huge argument.

 Once upon a time, there was a human whose internal body parts could speak to each other and they use to fight a lot. Once, they had a huge argument on who is the most important part of the human body. The participants were Brains, Heart, Liver, Lungs, Kidney, Stomach, Asshole etc.

 Upon the argument everyone concluded and agreed that it's only the asshole who is not needed, rather it is a disgrace to the human body. When, asshole heard about this conclusion it became angry and took an oath to not work at all and ended up shutting itself.

 Initially, none of the others bothered and kept doing their tasks diligently. However, as the time passed Stomach started to ache since the shit could not be disposed and along with it even Liver and Kidney. Gradually, all other organs started to get worried, in the end the lungs took a deep breath and brains painfully asked everyone to apologize to asshole for it is the most important part. Even Heart unwillingly agreed and all apologized to asshole and lived happily ever after.

 Moral of the story : "Boss Is Always An Asshole".

 Hypothetically, they dispose the shit that we do not have to deal with, otherwise they give us a headaches, which makes them almighty. Whatever they do, we still have to agree to them willingly or unwillingly.

 But, only this cannot be a justified reason for their behavior we have to tolerate.

 Do we suffer less because of their whining all the time?

 Moreover, every boss has their pawns whose job is to distinguish and eliminate the potential threats and a lot of many other tasks instead of their own work. Apparently, this is an aspect to be discussed in Chapter 02 since these pawns comes in multiple breeds.

 I am certain most of us has a few stories about our bosses and please share them in the comments below (Needless to say, anonymously) and I may include them in the next chapter.

 Always remember "Boss is always right, because they are assholes". Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 19 May 2019

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Why am I alive ?

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Why am I alive ?

 This was the first question I asked myself, since I did not know what I could possibly do and the only fact I knew was, that I had nothing to live for.

 I still wonder, what all treachery would life unfold before it bids farewell to its mere existence.

 Today, I would like to tell you something about myself. My age is 29 , perhaps soon to be 30 since my birthday is on 27th May. Thank you for wishes in advance!

 My first blog was on 14th, March'2018, when I was going thru one of the most unanticipated phase of my life. I am still going thru divorce wherein everything initiated on 07th, January'2018.

 Apparently, it made me realize a lot of untold facts about life which I could never comprehend, when everything started I tried everything within my ability to retain the relation which was inevitable to to end.

 I still ask the same question mentioned above (Why am I alive ?) to myself multiple times since that day and to be honest, I still haven't found the answer yet.

 I still pursue the reason to prove my existence with something better, apart from breathing to prove it!

 Now, why am I telling you this ?

 Because, I have made quite a lot of mistakes in my life but needless to say some were beautiful, however I would really want someone to learn from it, as people still doesn't realize the consequences of their decisions. I have seen people consumed enough with their own emotions that they do not see the life, for the way it really is !!!

 We all do everything that is right according to us and we decide it by our self, which gets questioned later by everyone. This is what makes everyone loose their ideal temperament, doesn't it?

 I am sure we does that considering it to be better for everyone but, in real it is better to make the choices collectively since we alone does not have to carry every burden that life offers !!!

 I only want to emphasize on the thought of not bearing the burden of everything by ourselves and it is never late to begin...!!!!!!!!

 We must have someone to share it with and that could be family at the best or a friend and even a stranger, everyone counts. Otherwise, the burden of the consequences would never reduce irrespective of the efforts.

 Moreover, by end of the day either we would be drowned by our own sorrows or we can overcome, simply by the being able to make the decisions collectively since we would have someone to support us thru the phase.

 How do I know it ?

 I have people who support me, few aggressively, few silently and needless to say few affectionately ...what about you ?

 This becomes the foremost important reason to pursue the reason to keep the quest alive to find the reason of my existence !!!!

 Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

 Please share your thoughts as well and do not forget to connect with me. Also, please leave it in the comments below, if you would like me to write about something in particular.. Thank you for reading !
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Sunday, 12 May 2019

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The Picture Perfect Family

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There is a picture perfect family, wherein every member supports each other. Moreover, the opinion of every individual in that family is valued. It is the family everyone envies; hence we would talk about this family today.

I would tell you an instance that happened today, I went on an errand and an old woman of approx. 70 years of age was trying to approach me and I could perceive that she was being hesitant; therefore I stood there for a while and waited for her to initiate the conversation. It took a few minutes but, she approached me and asked for 05 bucks and my question was “why”.  She felt embarrassed and said that she is not well and already has 05 bucks but need 05 more to take a ride back home, since she is not able to walk. I gave her the money, rather I called a ride and made sure she gets it. Moreover, even the driver charged less considering the situation, without saying a word. (Charged 10 instead of 20).

When she left, I wondered what kind of family she could be from, however everyone has a situation of their own.  I am no one to judge someone and/or their family. What if, this woman may not even have a family?

I am sure this is a situation a lot of us has come across, but how many of us has left all the other thoughts and tried being their family or maybe treat them as a family member till we can, apparently we all have a family to take care of, hence we cannot adopt anyone, but we can at least try for a while and maybe someone else would carry on from there, such as the driver I mentioned above.

Honestly, after she left and most importantly after I left the thought of being a jury, It felt better that I could help her in any possible manner.

Now, what does this instance has to do with The Picture Perfect Family?

Precisely, there is no picture perfect family and we do not even get to choose our own family.

Instead of insisting everyone in our family to be perfect, should we not try to relish their imperfections or even share our own imperfections? I am sure someone else is better than you in few aspects but I am certain that you would also be better in few aspects than someone else.

Family is about getting all the pieces of a puzzle together.

There is no picture perfect family, we have to make one. We do not get to choose our family, but the one which we have is the only family.

We must cherish our own family and when we help someone, never be the jury for them or their family, we must do it considering them as our own; otherwise we must not do it at all. Ironically, we become jury if given the opportunity whereas, Every family is picture perfect. Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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Sunday, 28 April 2019

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The Golden Sand Beach : One Of The Most Unique, Yet Unknown Beach In India

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The Neyyar River is on the one side and the Arabian Sea is on the other side and, in between it is The Golden Sand beach : Poovar, Kerala. This sight was beyond mesmerizing than it appears in the above picture.

 It was one of the most beautiful unplanned adventures and the journey begin from Poovar backwaters, I took a boat from there with the destination of The Golden Sand Beach. The journey itself was enough beautiful that it had me captivated with sightings which included an Elephant shaped rock along with the exquisite view of backwaters. Even though there are floating restaurants around the corner of Neyyar River but it was kept impeccably neat, far better then Alleppey backwaters.

 I have been to many beaches but I find this beach as most unique and undiscovered or rather unexplored among all. It was unexpectedly serene at this beach which compelled me to write about it.

 What else is unique about it ?

Rejoice the solitude in the astonishing view of the nature.

 There are moments in our lives which we cherish even though, it could be attached to an emotion of sorrow. However, these places somehow gives us the relief that those memories are not meant to be forgotten, moreover they are to be cherished irrespective of the despair they may have brought. A few of us may have sorrows compared to a sea but, there would still be moments to relish comparable to a river.

 These are the emotions which makes us human and we must attain the tenacity to cherish them. Similar to this beach which connects a sea and a river, yet makes it look even more astounding.

 How to reach there ?

 Airport : Thiruvananthapuram is the nearest airport. (32 Kms Approx.)
Railway : Thiruvananthapuram is the nearest railway station. (30 Kms Approx.)
Road : Indeed, available. (Recommended cab Vendor : Speed Travels)
Boat : Recommended method if you would ask me, you can take it from one of the multiple boat services at the route to Poovar alongside the Neyyar River, which would cost approx. 500 per person (rest are your negotiation skills).

 When to go there ?

 Whenever you can, planning such trips would destroy the sense of adventure from it !

 If you still do not find anything unique about this beach then, visit once to change that thought. Otherwise, please share your thoughts on a place better than this.

 "People who cannot find peace in travelling and exploring the unknown, they can never find peace at all". Choose Wisely and Live Freely ...Cheers !!!

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